Mixie & Dean

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I was out at a bar last night feeling a bit mesmerized by all of the douchebag boys that were around me.  (For those of you who are not familiar with the term “douchebag”, Urban Dictionary defines douchebag as, “An individual who has an over-inflated sense of self worth, compounded by a low level of intelligence, [...]

According to a blog post titled Here Comes Breakup Season by Edith Zimmerman, co-author of  The Hairpin (a general interest blog), the breakup season is upon us.  Zimmerman reports, “Designer/writer David McCandless combed through 10,000 Facebook status updates looking for breakup trends, then packaged the data into this tidy green graph.”  And according to this [...]

As you know, Mixie, last week I was dumped via text message by my married boyfriend.  And this got me to thinking, if I was stupid enough to get involved with a married man, then there must be other girls out there who have fallen into a similar trap.  I learned the hard way that [...]

Mixie, I’m sure you’ve heard the news by now.  It’s everywhere!  Jessica Simpson got engaged this weekend to former football pro, Eric Johnson.  And, par for the course, I got dumped…twice…via text message. I am still having a hard time believing that I’ve actually been dumped by two different boys over text message.  I mean, [...]

Dear Mixie & Dean, I’m a single girl in my early-twenties who is constantly meeting great guys in seemingly horrible relationships.  If the guy I am pining after is unmarried but in a bad relationship, is he technically available for me to pursue?  Or do I need to consider him off-limits? Sincerely yours, The Girl [...]

Mixie, today is just one of those all-around dreary, no good days.  It’s raining in New York City, my hair is one frizzy mess, I have a strong inclination that I about to get dumped by my married boyfriend in San Francisco, and…David Cassidy was just arrested for driving under the influence in Florida! Um [...]

Dear Mixie & Dean, I need help. I am newly single and looking to get back in the dating game.  It has been a long time since I have played and I fear that a lot has changed.  To make matters worse, I think I have lost my will to flirt. I should first let you know [...]

I decided today that I, Dean, am pretty much a Real Housewife of New York City.  I mean so what if I am not married (to a slightly gay man), have no children, and I’m not a Countess, a chef, or a model?  Who cares that I have not written a top-selling book about manners, [...]

Here I am, Mix, writing to you from the Big Apple!  It’s been nearly one week since I arrived here and I can’t exactly say that I like it.   But I can’t quite say that I hate it either… At this point, I’m kind of just feeling indifferent about this city. Like any city, there [...]